Otto Collins are two authentic and open life partners
who share from their hearts and, more importantly, model
what it truly takes to create an outstanding
relationship. Through personal stories, a wide variety
of books and practical ideas, they offer new
possibilities for creating and sustaining the love we
want in our lives. I recommend their work and
appreciate their grounded generosity.”
Hendricks, co-author of Conscious Loving and
The Conscious Heart and co-founder of the Hendricks
Otto, I can not begin to tell you how helpful and
insightful your book has been in regards to my
relationship with not only my spiritual partner, but
with family and friends as well. I have looked for some
time to find answers/suggestions to some of the issues
in my life surrounding relationships. Most of the
information seemed to be very judgmental and not some
from a very loving author. Your book and your
newsletters have been a reminder that there is
absolutely nothing that exists outside of love that
would serve me. The answers to my questions kept
pointing to love and the famous Neale Donald Walsch's
quote, "What would love do now". Thank you for the
opportunity to grow with you.”
"I am so happy
I purchased your book. I can not tell you how much I
have learned from this. Not only about my relationship
but my life. It has been a real gem to have this.
Discovering the truth about what I am really feeling
inside about this relationship has been so exciting! No
more denying, keeping it inside, nor feeling guilty
about what I feel. This (book) has helped me in so many
ways I can not explain it all. I really thank you. To
share your wisdom and insight in such a way, is truly a
gift. Thank you again"
(Should you Stay or Should you Go?) is a tool I will
recommend to people who come to me seeking help with
their own questions of whether to stay or go. As a
workbook, it is a great adjunct to counseling, helping
to reveal to clients what they may already know about
themselves as well as where they are stuck and need
Ph.D., The Enneagram Institute of Central Ohio
provoking, stimulating, inspiring and provocative. This
book will give you lots to think about. It will help
you dig a little deeper to help you to make a better
choice about staying or leaving a relationship. When
you are ready to make this choice. . . read this book!
Wise words from the Collins. You must take the first
step while you are still afraid!”
Author, Professional Speaker & Relationship Coach
read the book (Should you Stay or Should you Go?) in a
single sitting. Then I left it at his house for him to
read. That was last week. THREE days later he
surprised me with the MOST romantic weekend trip I have
ever experienced in my life. We are BOTH very happy. We
discussed everything on our minds and there has been
great communication ever since. He is not only very
romantic, but thoughtful and considerate. He is now my
"Thanks so much for your book about jealousy! It has
given me the confidence to step out of the mold I had
created for myself. From time to time I still have
bouts of it, but have come to recognize when I am more
prone to it - like when I'm tired and feeling
vulnerable. The most helpful thing is actually knowing
that I am in control of it. And that only I affect how
I feel. Finding your book came at a time when I needed
it most - thanks again. A very helpful
I have found
your book once again amazing and extremely useful. Your
information and tools provided in your tape and books
have been very valuable for me in transforming my
relationship. Over the past few years I have read
numerous relationship books to help me have a wonderful,
passionate relationship. Nothing compares to your books.
You are both our wonderful role models to look up to,
and you really do light a hope for the rest of society.
me whenever you write anymore books, articles, etc. Many
thanks for all your help in changing our life in such a
positive way. Have a great day and keep up the fantastic
work, as it’s needed in today’s society.”
read your book about healing a broken heart yesterday. It
has made an immediate impact! October 6th will mark three
months since I saw the person I split up with and your book,
which I read in one go on a day home from work with the flu,
changed my whole perspective. Haven't had the need to google
him once today and have stopped being curious about what he
might be doing.
"Although I've had isolated moments like this since I left
July 6th, this is sustained. I'm feeling great, and looking
forward to feeling even better, day by day. What a wonderful
book! I'm telling everyone!! Have also ordered your book on
jealousy - my big problem. Much looking forward to reading
it. Thank you sooooooo much for making me feel so much
better and ready to embrace my future in a big way!!!
"I knew going into this relationship that it was not healthy
but persisted with the thought in the back of my mind that
it was meant to teach me something important, and How to
Heal Your Broken Heart is a real road map for that process
so I’m very happy that I stumbled on to it on the internet.
I also like the way it is laid out and how practical it is
in the kind of advice and suggestions it offers. An
excellent and really uplifting book all around."
Name withheld on request
Oh My Goddess ... Today's newsletter was probably THE
most inspiring article I have EVER read ... I recently
started receiving your insightful
newsletters, and wanted you to know how much I enjoy
them!!! They're written in such a matter-of-fact, easy
to read, straight-to-your-heart language. What an
inspiration you are... Thank You...!!!”
Victoria, Geneva, IL
and Otto, Thank you for your example, and for the
courage you both have in sharing your experiences so
freely with others so that we can all learn from them.”
Teri Ryan, Columbus, OH
Susie and Otto,
I really loved
my first newsletter. It helped me to remember about why
we are all here- in this life. You are kind people.”
“Susie & Otto,
I just wanted
to thank you for putting together such a worthwhile
newsletter. I get so much out of them and always look
forward to reading them!"
are soul-inspired and soul-stirring - keep them coming -
they give practical yet spiritual advice.”
Kim Ploughman, St. John’s,
“I wanted to
also thank you for your insightful column that you send
weekly. We take time
out to talk to one another about something either
reading a devotional at
night, talking about our relationship, working out of a
workbook, or sharing our thoughts on your column for the
This time is
just part of our commitment to each other and knowing
that in order to make
a marriage work, we have to work at it…but what a joy it
is to actually see
“I just wanted to thank you for
giving me such great advice. I wrote you 4 months ago
and at the time I was so scared when I left my husband
and you gave me so much courage to push forward. I am so
glad I did leave. My life has changed around. It's not
perfect, but considering what I was in, it is fabulous
now. I have found out so many things about myself. I
even started treating myself better and I have even
learned how to forgive him and stop hating him.”
Cynthia Jeans, North Carolina
“Through their personal coaching and books, Susie and
Otto Collins have been my guides. They've helped me
identify blocks I've had in the past and helped me learn
to do relationships in a different way.
This time I was really clear in my intentions about what
I wanted in attracting a mate. I've been able to
visualize my perfect perfect partner, feel that I
already have him in my life and let go of the outcome. I
can tell you that their process really works!
Thank you for your wonderful coaching and wisdom, Susie
Nancy, Cincinnati, Ohio
participated in the seminar last night and the night
before on relationship trust. I found this program to be
well organized and presented in a concise, clear format
with step-by-step tangible tools that one could
incorporate easily in one's everyday life.
I appreciate not only the great information provided at
an affordable price, but I respect both Susie and Otto's
compassionate, caring and thoughtful responses to some
of the seminar participant's questions.
was also helpful to have both the male and female
perspective. Thank you for providing a great learning
Margie Anton, Chugiak Alaska
would like to sincerely thank you for the wonderful job
you are doing. I look forward to my newsletters via
e-mail. They are short and sweet, to the point and
really make you think about what's important in your
life. I have printed every one and saved it in a
'special personal folder' for myself"
have been receiving your newsletter for many months now
and I am always ready to read and apply your insightful
messages. It is very encouraging to realize my personal
growth in some areas and look to new approaches in
others. As I read, different relationships pop into my
head, those, of course, that apply to the topic or
example--sometimes my mother, then maybe only a sentence
later and it's my children or my ex-husband. In any
event, it is a wonderful check and balance to take a
moment out of each week and look at these relationships
that are the most important aspects of our lives. So, I
wanted to say "Thank You!" You have a loyal reader."
always look forward to the newsletters, like a little
treasure chest, filled with golden booklets.”
quick note to share my gratitude for your sharing. I
have a private practice where I use many modalities to
assist people with improving the quality of their lives.
Knowing I am unable to be a "master" at everything, I
use your infos and hand them out -- they make such a
difference! We discuss how the topic may be an area of
improvement ... and it also serves as a great
“Just to let you know that I bought your ‘Stay or Go’
book primarily for some clients who I am counseling who
really need to work through their stuff. Unfortunately
it is 4 years too late for me, but reading it I feel
that I would have made the same decision, because I
wasn’t in the ‘right’ space to repair it. Our
says we are both nicer people since we’re not together,
even though we were both devastated by the split
initially. Thanks for a great book and keep up the good
are excited about some of Otto and Susie's creative
ideas to enhance or rekindle the spark in marriage. Our
marriage is a priority for us, so we are glad for any
helpful suggestions. Otto and Susie are experts on the
subject of loving relationships. Their ideas are
practical help for anyone who has a desire to improve
their relationship or recapture the magic. They are
experienced, compassionate, and caring coaches, who have
a wealth of worthwhile information to help us all
improve our most important relationships."
Roy and Gwen S.
have given me hope about my marriage.
I am a newlywed and I have been struggling with the
changes and adjustments that come with it, and now I
understand what I need to do. Thanks Susie and Otto. I
don't know you, but I feel like you understand what my
husband and I are going through."
"You two have really hit the nail on the head! I feel
like you looked right into our relationship issues. Your
insights and ideas are so clear and practical. I am
excited to put them to use! Thank you!"
"I feel like I now have the
tools I need to move forward in life. Thank you sooo
just have listened to your information about creating
more spark into relationships and was absolutely
impressed about the 4 secrets and especially the
strategies. My partner and I are doing very well with
love, connection, passion and spark but sometimes we do
have a listening problem and implementing the strategies
will help us a lot! Thank you so much for the valuable
"You have opened my eyes to my whole relationship, and
have given me information that I had never thought
about. Thank you so much for making us both have a good
think about our relationship, we are both now committed
to putting that spark back and keeping it in our
"I was in a fairly new relationship and I had been
cheated on. Every time my boyfriends phone rang I
freaked out and got very jealous. I knew this was not
healthy because I had made the choice to forgive him and
to move on. I ordered this publication hoping it would
help me move past my jealous tendencies and it certainly
helped. I also sought counseling a few times because I
hate being worried and jealous, it is harmful. I wanted
to move on and make our lives better and more healthy.
He had some fixing to do as well and between the two of
us we figured things out and we have moved past our
"No More Jealousy changed my life. I saw extreme
jealousy in my father and hated the way he treated my mother
because of his unfounded fears. However, I found myself
battling the same demons and mistreating people in my own
relationships. I found No More Jealousy on line and
ordered the program. After listening to the first few
chapters, I found myself understanding my feelings and for
the first time in my, dealing with my jealous tendencies
instead of reacting to them. It has given me tremendous
freedom. Thank you for your great insight."
reading your book No More
Jealousy, Hazel and I have become aware of what has been
triggering some of the feelings that we have experienced from
time to time. Understanding this has enabled us to know how to
handle these feelings and we have started to communicate on a
new level. Your book has helped us enormously since reading it.”
“No More Jealousy
saved my relationship.
With your help, Roger was able to let go of his unwarranted fear
that I would abandon him and we began to have a healthy
relationship . . . without jealousy . . . thanks”
"No More Jealousy has proven to be an extremely useful tool for me. It has helped me to center my thoughts and actions if I feel the fears coming on associated with jealousy.
It was helpful to understand what jealousy really is, and with that
knowledge and the exercises offered in this program, I feel I am much better at handling my insecurities and fears."
Karen Westerfer, Philadelphia
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"All I Can Say is 'WOW!'
This is easily the best book on the subject of getting over
a relationship break up or divorce."
Dr. Steve Taubman -- Author of The Book UnHypnosis: how To
Wake Up and Live the Life You Were Meant To Live.
"It was very, very illuminating, particularly your
insights into how to be clear about not going back."
"Going through a
divorce has been one of the toughest things for me to deal with. Many
of the questions I had were addressed in How to Heal Your Broken
Heart. That information has provided me with a feeling that there is
life after a divorce. Just a different one. Thanks for your help
getting people through these times."
especially the part about how to stop thinking of that person. I'm
still vague about how to be positive especially after you've been
cheated on and you're the last to find out about it. But for the most
part it was very informative."
"Thank you very much for the teleseminar. Most of the information is
exactly what I would tell a friend but until now found it difficult
when trying to apply it to my own life. I am tired of making excuses
for myself and enjoyed hearing the same words I have said many times
to others come directly at me in a non-threatening way. Thanks again!"
"I thought the teleseminar was
real helpful to me as it answered so many questions that I had in the
back of my head about starting over, and healing."
"Practical, down to
earth and yet wonderfully deep, perceptive and soulful!"
moved by the clarity, honesty and compassion with which Susie and
Otto presented the information on ways to heal from a break up or
divorce. I had in fact just the day before begun the break up process
with my boyfriend, and this teleseminar was literally perfect timing!
I took notes and I have referred to them regularly during this time
of transition in my life. I enjoyed the seminar immensely and am
grateful I had the opportunity to participate. Thank you Susie and
"You CAN transform
your relationship pain into personal bodacious
Susie and Otto Collins' practical, honest and
heartfelt advice will show you how"
Mary Foley , Author of Bodacious! Woman:
Outrageously in Charge of your Life and Lovin' it!
"The teleseminar (on Healing after a break up) was very
informative. It reinforced a lot of things I have heard
previously, as well as provided some new ways to look at things.
I think this seminar will be very helpful to those who are open
to helping themselves."
"First let me tell you a heartfelt thank you for sharing your
experiences and those who have shared with you. I have gone
through a painful separation two years ago, after an 18 years
relationship, and have grown as I have searched to become a
better person in the process and be a more loving person instead
of loving one person only. I know I have more work to do as I
have not found yet another partner that I want in my life. I
also have my younger brother who is going through a break up and
is living with me in the meantime that he finds himself an
apartment. I know I never want to go back to an unconscious
relationship as I had before. I did not know how to communicate
my feeling and my partner was not honest about his. I read all
your newsletters, last night's teleconference was tremendously
helpful. I am looking forward getting the MP3 to listen to it
again... and again. Thanks again for being who you are together
Otto and Susie,"
Céline from Québec
"Another Tool from Otto and Susie
that will propel you to another level of
relationship growth and health."
Dr. Robert Huizenga, The
Infidelity Coach, www.Break-Free-From-The-Affair.com
Susie and Otto Collins